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Last Minute Resistance
So what is it?
Basically, it’s when you manage get a girl back to the bedroom… but she doesn’t want to take that last step.
Last minute resistance will happen to everyone once in a while, but if it’s a regular occurrence, then it’s time to take action.
Firstly, not all cases of last minute resistance have a common cause. It can, however, generally be narrowed down to two cases:
“I hardly Know You” or “You’re Just Trying to Hook up” Objection:
If that’s what’s happening, then the problem likely happened before you brought her to the bedroom.
It meant you didn’t build up enough ‘Qualification’ or ‘Comfort’ first. Especially if she says something like, “I bet you do this all the time.”
That means that she is attracted to you, but she isn’t convinced that you value her.
What to do:
Next time around, spend a bit more time making her work for your interest, telling her specifically what you like about her when you compliment her (and not just on her looks!).
Furthermore, don’t keep pushing.
The more you keep pushing, the more she’s going to dig in. Act like her resistance is no big deal – you want to come across as a man who is sexual, sure, and passionate for her, but not obsessed with getting laid, pushy or desperate.
Just say, “OK, sure,” and do something else. She will likely be surprised that you gave up so easily and want you to keep trying. You can start touching her again in a few minutes, and see where it goes from there.
This is when a woman says no to mean “I don’t want you to think I’m easy, so I’m going to say no the first few times until I give in.” No always means no, even if you’re sure she means not yet.
What to do:
Just stop and re-initiate after a few minutes.
After a couple of these, if it’s truly token resistance, then her objections will vanish. Alternatively, whip it out… I’m serious! Unzip your pants and put her hand on you. That often melts objections (again no means no so don’t force her if she doesn’t want to).
It can also help early on – before you get her home – is to make thing sexual. For example: “You are s sexy, if you are still talking to me in ten seconds, we are going to make out.” Then follow through.
Or say something like: “We should never be left alone,” followed by a sly grin.
Finally, don’t underestimate the value of sleeping for a few hours, especially if you met in a bar or club and there’s been alcohol, fast food, and a late night. Sometimes she just needs to sleep a bit before she’s ready.
So next time you encounter last minute resistance, remember this advice… and before you know it’ll just happen!
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