How to use the forums

If you’re new, the first time you see The PUA Attraction Forums, it can be a bit overwhelming. There are dozens of boards and sub-forums there, some are advanced, some are for newbies, hundreds of people are online at the same time, and where do you go first?

Some guys don’t come back for a second visit, and that’s really unfortunate because The Attraction Forums are a great tool for improving your game. Everything there is also completely free. Here’s a couple useful places to start if you’re a newbie.

• Find a wingman – The wingman and local groups section is divided by geography. So find guys who are also learning and using Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method Corp) to go out with, share tips with, and so on. And as you probably know, you’re going to get a lot better results with a good wingman (The Don and I talked about this in our Wingman Tactics interview). Having a good wingman also helps a lot with motivation and approach anxiety. Sure you can go out alone (there’s even a guide for sarging solo) but it’s not as effective, or as fun. The wingman and meetups board is here:

http://www.theattractionforums.com/meetups-wings-venues/

• PUA Field Reports. Reading other people’s field reports can be a great tool; you can compare what they did in different situations to what you would have done and learn from that. More importantly (in my opinion) is a place to post your own field reports. If you have the discipline to write a step-by-step account of each night out, you will get so much better so quickly. Not because of what people say about your field reports and advice they give, though that will be useful too, but just because laying out the events of your day or night out step-by-step will automatically make your subconscious analyze and think about everything that happened. Very quickly, this will make you MUCH better at Love Systems. Try it, even just one per week.

http://www.theattractionforums.com/field-reports/

• The Pick Up Artist Classic Writings Library. If Love Systems is a science, it’s a cumulative one, where today’s experts build on those who came before. Read articles, tips, field reports, and more, from the world’s best pickup artists — all selected by a team of The Attraction Forums editors to bring you the most useful and most immediate information.

http://www.theattractionforums.com/classic-writings/

• The Search Button. Bookmark this; you’ll be coming back to it over and over. The Attraction Forums has been around for years. There’s literally almost no topic relating to dating or seduction that has not been treated there. So before you what you should have done when she brought her friend along on a date or what’s the best routine to use during day game to generate instant attraction, it’s there.

http://www.theattractionforums.com/search.php

Of course, this is just scratching the surface, we haven’t even talked about the main discussion forum yet, but this should get you up and running on the biggest and most popular free message board for men’s dating advice in the world. Enjoy!