Opinion Openers

Opinion Openers Guest post from a member of the Love Systems community! The best way to learn something is often to have to break it down and explain it to others. If you’re a decent writer and want to work with us on defining terms and writing articles like this, please email me. You’re out [...]

If you’ve read this study, you might be thinking that women like guys who have that tormented, serious look. But if you’ve read the Magic Bullets Handbook or Daytime Dating: Never Sleep Alone, you know that you should smile when you first approach a woman. Contradiction? Not really. If you look at the Science Daily [...]

Quick checklist time: Do you do any of these things? None of them will help you. 10 Deadly Sins of Approaching1) Taking more than a few seconds after seeing an attractive woman to approach her. Approach right away — it makes you less nervous, it makes her less creeped out, it shows you’re a high [...]

I’m posting this here as well as the Dating Advice section of the Love Systems website. Typical bar or club scenario: You see an attractive woman. You don’t know her. You have no “excuse” to talk to her. Can you walk up to her and start a conversation – the kind of conversation that’s going [...]

So, how do you approach a woman at a bar or club? Yesterday I was a guest speaker at the special Approaching & Transitioning special seminar by top dating coaches / pick up artists Braddock, Mr M, and Dubbsy – where we talked about this exact question. (Don’t go looking on the schedule for this [...]