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The best example of re-framing that I’ve ever heard

June 30, 2012 By Leave a Comment
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Understanding frames, framing, and reframing is crucial.  Jon Sinn (a former PUA) called the interview he did with me on framing “the most important topic we’ll ever cover.”  I don’t know if I 100% agree – I think the interviews on female psychology, on how to be an alpha male and advanced attraction:push/pull are equally [...]

Filed Under: Frame control, Future, Sinn

Frames, Frame Control, Re-Framing

May 1, 2011 By 1 Comment

One of the most powerful Love Systems concepts is “framing”. We’ve been teaching this for years — hell it was the FIFTH interview in the interview series — that’s old school. Jon Sinn said it would be the most important interview we’d ever do and there’s a case to be made for that. (We’re in [...]

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The power of PUA frames

February 27, 2011 By 2 Comments

Now THIS is a man who understands frame control: (another groan-worthy joke coming up) Resolving to surprise her husband, an executive’s wife stopped by his office. She found him with his secretary sitting in his lap. Without hesitating, he dictated, “…and in conclusion, gentlemen, shortage or no shortage, I cannot continue to operate this office [...]

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How to Get a Threesome

November 19, 2010 By Leave a Comment

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Filed Under: 01. Dating Advice, Frame control, Threesomes

Threesomes, Runway Models, and the power of frames (part II)

May 15, 2009 By 6 Comments

Please click here to read part I. This post won’t make any sense without it. (Continued) I invited a bunch of my friends (ah, the joy of mass text messages) to a bustling outdoor bar/café that would have great social energy, drinks, and food. (i.e., no excuses to have to go somewhere else). I invited [...]

Filed Under: Frame control, Playboy Mansion, Threesomes

Framing and Frame Control as dating advice

April 18, 2009 By Leave a Comment

I just wanted to throw out a quick blurb on frames, framing, and frame control. Some people say it comes from NLP (neuro-linguistic programming), others say it doesn’t. I don’t really care as long as it works. Here’s an example of frame control in action: Man: Hey, how are you? [or any more elaborate openers] [...]

Filed Under: Frame control, Relationship advice, Relationship Management