New Playboy column is up!

This is on confidence – and some news you can use to project confidence to the women you meet. Playboy Pick Up Artist Column – Savoy on Confidence Please like / comment / tweet etc. on the post!

Mr M sent this to me the other day. I mean, we’ve all been pissed off before when a woman sends mixed signals, but…stalking her online and sending her a 1,500 word diatribe that she played with her too much…the man has problems. My question is whether this guy has worse inner game or outer [...]

I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. -Michael Jordan

On January 1, more men decide to take control over their lives and improve their success with women (and happiness in life) than on any other day. Many succeed. Some fail. That shouldn’t happen. Love, sex, and relationships are too important – they affect everything in your life. And the longer you internalize bad habits [...]

With New Year’s coming up, this is when people make their resolutions and set their personal goals for the next year. That’s a really crucial part of self-improvement. To bastardize Steven Covey — if you don’t know where you’re going, and you don’t know what it will look like when you get there, your odds [...]

Check out this thread on the Attraction Forums. Quote: Originally Posted by Alessandro Nesta I see a girl a bar or club that I find highly attractive and like you would expect I approach her and see what happens. When things start to click I feel good and I’m thinking (nice, it’s working) then when [...]

My friend 5.0 sent this to me earlier. Great stuff. As he said, there are some good thoughts about mentors, etc., around 12 mins in. Plus a killer quote in there that seems mysteriously apt: “Unsuccessful people have the same thing in common; they only ever talk about themselves.”

Hat tip to Cajun for this one. Very profound talk (though weirdly distracting animations) getting on how people and peoples view time differently and how this affects everything – from your inner game to how you relate to other people. It also explains how it is that how you think about time affects your chances [...]

Inner game is one of those things where everyone says they can teach it, most are awful at it, and a few are outstanding.* Future, the writer of the classic Love Systems article “Kill Beatrice” falls into the last category. He’s also got a powerfully caustic pen – not one I’d want to be on [...]

Some of the recent conversations I’ve been having have made me think of inner game again. Now, this doesn’t come with the expertise and deep research and insight of Mr M and Braddock’s Inner Game Seminar. It’s just one guy’s opinion (unlike, say, the Triad Model, which has been field-tested tens of thousands of times). [...]