Off topic & self-indulgent – my new book is finally done!

At least a first draft. Publisher is about to send me back comments. This is a book for women. I decided to write it for two reasons. First, I’ve learned a thing or two about women in the last ten years. I’ve had a lot of women tell me that I understand them better than [...]

Returning to one of my major themes…how terrible mainstream dating advice is. Here’s a gem — what should women wear on a date? Quick quiz, since most of you are men. What would you like a woman to wear on a date? Sure, it depends on where you’re going, but you’d like her to dress [...]

If women are going to keep coming here and asking me dating advice, then it’s only fair I post interesting content from a woman’s perspective too. This comes from Dr Tara Palmatier of http://shrink4men.wordpress.com. I suppose it falls under the category of “inner game”. I should write “you are not a prince” at some point [...]

Most non-English languages divide nouns into “genders” – like in French it’s le matin (the morning, masculine) but la porte (the door, feminine). French only has two, and sometimes words are given the gender you’d expect (girl, woman, family, etc., are all ‘feminine’). It really only matters for grammar and doesn’t have to relate to [...]

Despite lots of leading questions from journalists, Love Systems isn’t a men’s movement. Still less anti-woman. For all that you can make fun of female dating behavior and decisions in the 21st century, you can do the same for guys, etc., etc., etc. OK, disclaimer done. There is a segment of women who are just [...]