Long-term relationship interview series is up!

The new interview on long-term relationship – Volume 76 (!) – in the interview series is up! This one has two veteran instructors, Cajun and Future. Cajun of course is the author of the Gentleman’s Guide to Online Dating and winner of Keys to the VIP. Future is the creator of “Breakthrough Comfort” and writes [...]

I was talking on The Lounge the other day with Randall, a Love Systems bootcamp graduate. He’s doing great now, and it reminded me of a Q&A I did in the Love Systems’ insider (LSi) a little while ago. He said it helped him a lot, so I’m taking a fresh look at it here. [...]

My buddy Arcad on The Attraction Forums sent me this creepy article about love-triangle-becomes-murder, here: http://insession.blogs.cnn.com/2010/07/21/teenage-love-triangle-turns-deadly/ Since I’m pretty sure the family and friends of the murdered woman don’t read this blog (and I deserve to burn in hell if they do for just glossing through things like that), let’s drift from this tragedy to [...]

Thought-provoking article about choice and relationships to explain why today more people are single. A lot of great points in there, though I think they missed a big one. Let me explain: People often ask me whether guys who come to Love Systems bootcamps are looking for one-night stands or relationships. The answer is usually [...]

Someone forwarded me this from Perez Hilton’s site. Apparently, women have the most propensity to cheat the day after Mother’s Day. Watch the video here: http://perezhilton.com/2010-05-10-women-cheat-too Yeah, it’s a bit silly. For a serious look at women and cheating, check out the Relationship Management videos. Most men think about women cheating backwards – they focus [...]

New Love Systems instructor Bonsai (yay short Asian dudes taking over the world) has a pretty fun article on his blog about Finding Compatible Women. It’s got a bell curve, which I would make fun, except there are a million graphs in the Love Systems Triad.

I get a lot of emails with questions like how do I get my ex-girlfriend back or how do I get back with my ex, and so on. So in last week’s Love Systems insider, I went through the 8 golden rules of getting your ex-girlfriend back. (The signup for the Love Systems insider is [...]

I just wanted to throw out a quick blurb on frames, framing, and frame control. Some people say it comes from NLP (neuro-linguistic programming), others say it doesn’t. I don’t really care as long as it works. Here’s an example of frame control in action: Man: Hey, how are you? [or any more elaborate openers] [...]

Fascinating article from the New York Times over the weekend: What do women want? (hat tip to Big Business for this) Among the great things I learned from this article is that “neither straights nor gays were stirred by the bonobos [animal sex porn].” Cool. I’m stirred by lots of things, but dubbed-in chimpanzee noises [...]

The Relationship Management DVD Home Study Course is done. It’s fucking awesome. I am so proud of this thing. It starts at the most basic level and then works through to advanced stuff like a predictive model for when a girl is going to cheat and how to get into, manage, and change every one [...]