How to pick up women who are “out of your league”

A new column on Playboy from yours truly on dating those women who are out of your league – check it out.  If you like it, be sure to share it with your friends, vote it high, comment, etc.  

It’s a classic, but worth reposting. And when you cringe at 2:21…that’s actually happened to me.

Love this video – it’s pretty funny for one thing, but it also shows the power of social proof, frames, and other psychological techniques we use in Love Systems.

In about ten days, I’m on my way to London to sit in on a PUA bootcamp with Mr M. I really like going to our bootcamps and getting to know clients and watching instructors work, so this is going to be a lot of fun. Of course, it’ll pretty much be a working vacation [...]

Click here for part I of Multiple Long Term Relationships MLTRs and Polygamy Why Men more than women? When polygamous marriages occurred in pre-modern societies, they were more likely to involve polygyny (one husband, multiple wives) as opposed to polyandry (one wife, multiple husbands). Overall, of the 1,231 cultures in the Ethnographic Atlas Codebook, 84.6% [...]

This was written by someone in the Love Systems community and copied to me, so I thought I’d post it here. Interesting read: Sex scandals involving powerful men seem to be getting increasingly common today. Arnold Schwarzenegger, Dominique Strauss-Kahn and Tiger Woods to name a few, have been very notorious for making headlines about their [...]

Chicago-based Love Systems instructor Helicase sent this along…from a Chicago newspaper article complaining that there are more single men than single women there. Let me be clear – the newspaper article is complaining. Not Helicase. Helicase has more women than he knows what to do with. I’ll copy and paste the article below (Don’t worry, [...]

Been quoting him a lot on my twitter and here. Here’s another gem — one that doesn’t fit easily into 140 character twitter-land: Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habit. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character, it becomes your destiny.

Just listening to Pandora again…and I nearly spat out my coffee listening to this ad. I might have a word or two wrong, but I’m pretty sure this is mostly right: “You’ve got him wrapped around your finger. You know you do. So why not show this off? Send him to Simon G’s, Simon G’s [...]

I strive to become this kind of leader. One of our values is that we lead by example. But there’s always room to improve: “To lead people, walk beside them … As for the best leaders, the people do not notice their existence. The next best, the people honor and praise. The next, the people [...]